From Dow Jones & Company:



The writer is facing a difficult Christmas with the expectation of hosting eight people, but it has become very expensive and is causing financial strain. They are considering asking the adults to contribute $50 each in order to help with the cost of hosting. They feel apprehensive about asking for money and are concerned about the potential consequences. The Moneyist advises considering the risk versus the reward of asking for money and suggests that if the cost is causing genuine financial strain, it may be reasonable to ask the guests for contributions. However, if the financial burden is not significant, it may not be worth risking potential social discomfort. The Moneyist also points out that any change in the terms of the invitation may leave the guests with more than just discomfort. Overall, the writer is urged to carefully consider the implications of asking for financial help and to assess whether the money is necessary for bills or simply for funding future vacations.



Original: Is it crass to ask my family and friends to contribute $50 toward Christmas dinner?