From CNBC: 2024-04-16 15:03:32

Dating etiquette experts recommend that men should pay for the first date, with women offering to pay but men ultimately covering the bill. Most Americans agree, with 72% believing men should pay. On average, a first date costs $77. Men spent an average of $861 on dates in 2019, compared to women’s $500.

Dating experts attribute the expectation of men paying to historical gender roles and a subconscious desire for financial security. While women are paid less on average, experts argue that the person who asks for the date should foot the bill. The Institute for Family Studies found that 53% of men ask for first dates in heterosexual couples.

Experts recommend against splitting the bill, with some calling it tacky or disrespectful. Offering to pay for future dates may signal interest in a second encounter. Women should not be offended if men accept their offer to pay, as it can disrupt the power dynamic. The goal is to balance equality, chivalry, and respect in dating.

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